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Etiquette & FAQs 

 

Booking & Logistics

How do I ask you on a date?

For in-person dates, please head over to the booking page to ask me out. To order or schedule an online offering, please let me know how you'd like to connect via my order form.

How far in advance must I book?

To allow me to be my best for our date, at least 4 hours notice is required and advance notice beyond this is greatly appreciated. For overnight engagements, 24 hours notice is needed and 2 weeks notice is required for travel engagements. A $100 fee to cover last minute reservations may apply to same day bookings.

Why do you require screening information?

While I appreciate your need for discretion, my safety is as important as your privacy. Trust is an integral part of our relationship. If I cannot verify you, I cannot see you. Please be assured that all screening information is kept confidential and for my eyes only. You can also review my privacy policy.

Must I have received a COVID-19 vaccine to see you?

For my own health and the safety of my suitors, I am currently only seeing gentlemen who have received a full series of COVID-19 vaccine(s). If you are not vaccinated and would like to meet me, I invite you to check out my online offerings.

Where is your incall located?

As I am available by appointment only and visit multiple cities, I do not maintain an incall location. If you request this type of date, I will reserve a hotel as close to you as possible (within the range of Raleigh to Winston Salem).

In what areas do you offer outcalls?

I am happy to travel up to 1 hour (each way) from Durham for outcalls. While I do offer outcalls beyond this radius, a travel fee of $100/hour of travel is required as a deposit.

Why are outcalls available only to hotels?

For my personal safety, I do not feel comfortable meeting at personal residences for outcalls. For this reason, outcalls are available only to hotels. If you are local to the area, and do not have a hotel room you would like to use, I am happy to reserve one for an additional $75-$100 fee.

Why are incall dates more expensive than outcalls?

Incalls are more expensive than outcalls because I need to book accommodations for these dates. The $100 incall fee covers the cost of the hotel for our meeting.

 

What to Expect During Our Date

How should I prepare for our date?

Following screening, I'll email and/or text you (based on your indicated communication preferences) to confirm our date. I will be happy to answer any questions you may have at any time prior to our date but please remember that while I am as excited as you to meet, we must avoid the use of any explicit language  for discretion and safety. 

On the day of our date, I'll reach out again via your preferred method of communication to confirm that you would still like to see me. You must respond so that we can finalize our plans. If it is within 4 hours of our scheduled date and I haven't heard from you, I will assume you would like to cancel or reschedule.

While I don't want to ruin the anticipation by giving too many details, you may find this guide from Tryst helpful regarding planning for our time together. As we'll be getting up close and personal, arriving clean and fresh is appreciated. And please, ensure your sobriety so we can fully enjoy every moment. Following these simple tips will help make the most of our rendezvous!

What should I bring to our date?

Please ensure that you have your government issued ID available as it may be requested for verification purposes.


Your cash compensation for my time should be provided to me upon your arrival (for incall) or placed in a visible location (for outcall). If we are meeting in public, please place my rate in a discreet card or gift bag that can be presented at the beginning of our time together. Forcing me to request this only sets an uncomfortable tone for our date.

Please do not bring any weapons or valuables with you. Smoking, vaping, or use of any tobacco or nicotine products during dates (especially indoors) is not permitted.

What are some date activities you enjoy?

First and foremost, I love getting to know my suitors! This can be as simple as sharing a drink and some conversation or enjoying a meal together. Let me show you my silly side with a round of mini golf or indoor rock climbing if you're feeling adventurous. For quiet nights in, let's snuggle and watch a movie or play a sexy game of charades (yes, I'm cheesy!). I love trying new things so if you have an activity in mind, I'm all ears!

What if I would like to extend our date?

While our time together is to be savored, all good things must come to an end. If you would like to extend our date, you may ask if additional time is available. If possible, I offer additional half hour(s) for $200 each or hour(s) for $350 each (cash only).

 

Gratuities

What payment methods do you accept?

For deposits and virtual engagements, I accept Cash App, Venmo, PayPal (+10% for user fees), or bitcoin (+15% for transfer fees). Visa, Mastercard, or Amazon gift cards are also accepted (+10% convenience fee for all gift cards).


For in-person dates, I am only able to accept cash or bitcoin (+15% for transfer fees), which is due at the beginning of our time together. If you would like to learn more about bitcoin as a payment method, check out this ebook created by fellow sex worker cypherpunkchic (please consider purchasing the paid version to support her work if you are able).

How do I provide a deposit to reserve my booking?

A $100 deposit is required for incalls and may apply to other appointments at my discretion. After I have reviewed your booking information and confirmed our compatibility, I will reach out to you via email or text to request your deposit.


For deposits, I accept Cash App, Venmo, PayPal (+10% to cover user fees), or bitcoin (+15% for transfer fees). Visa, Mastercard, or Amazon gift cards (+10% convenience fee for all gift cards) are also accepted. Deposits must be made promptly or your reservation will not be confirmed.

What is "Appreciation Pricing"?

Companionship is a universal need and I am committed to offering equal access to my time for all individuals. I recognize that some suitors may have barriers to booking such as disability, financial hardship, or other extenuating circumstances. I appreciate that you are considering seeing me and would like to work with you to make this possible. If you are unable to book due to one of the above situations, please indicate that you are requesting "Appreciation Pricing" on the booking form and I will be happy to discuss a price point that takes this into consideration.

Do you offer a social rate?

Compensation is for my companionship regardless of how our time together is spent. Therefore, my advertised rates apply to nearly all engagements. For consideration of a reduced rate for extended social-only dates, please inquire.

Do you accept gifts as payment?

While I greatly appreciate the generosity of gifts, I am unable to accept them as a form of payment, unless agreed upon before the gift is received. Please send me a message if you would like to discuss this.

 

Policies

What is your cancellation policy?

Please provide as much notice as possible if you need to reschedule or cancel our date. Deposits are non-refundable but may be applied to a future appointment within 30 days at my discretion. If you need to cancel within 8 hours of the scheduled date, the full rate for your scheduled time is due out of consideration for the fact that I have set aside this time for you.

What about reviews?

Out of respect for the intimate nature of our time together, I ask that you please avoid sharing the explicit details of our meeting online. I do permit respectful reviews on Private Delights but appreciate your use of discretion if you choose to leave one. I will request the removal of any reviews that are blatantly false or overtly explicit.

Why do you not allow explicit discussion via email, text, or phone? What is considered explicit language?

For my safety and yours, I do not allow any discussion of sexual acts via email, text, or phone (excluding if we connect for an online offering). This type of conversation is highly incriminating and must be avoided. In addition to sexual language, profanity and rudeness are not tolerated. Please return the same respect I show you.

Can I use you as a reference?

Of course! I am happy to provide references for suitors I have seen in person in the last 12 months. Please give me a heads up if you will be using me as a reference so I can be on the lookout for it and reply promptly.

Can I provide a reference, work ID, P411, or social media profile as an alternative screening method?

No, the only documents/methods I accept for screening are a government issued photo ID and proof of COVID vaccination.

 

Everything Else...

Do you tour or travel?

Due to responsibilities outside of companionship, I am not able to tour. If you would like to see me in a location other than RTP or the Triad, NC, I am available for fly or drive me to you engagements with a minimum of 2 weeks notice.


For destinations I can drive to, a fee of $100/hour of travel plus an accommodations fee of $200/night (if overnight lodging is needed) applies. For fly me to you engagements, a travel fee of $1000 plus $200/night (if overnight lodging is needed) applies.

Do you accept outfit requests?

Yes, absolutely! If you have a particular outfit you would like me to wear please feel free to let me know when you book.


Please keep in mind that outfit requests must be appropriate for the venue of our date (e.g., do not request a formal dress for a ball game or lingerie only for a social outing) and offer to sponsor your requested look if it is not something already in my closet.

Do you see BIPOC suitors or clients of other ethnicities?

I welcome clients of all races, ethnicities, creeds, religions, etc. The only demographic I do not serve is women and couples, simply because I am heteroromantic. As long as you are respectful, our time together will be a blast!

Are you newbie friendly?

Yes! Whether you've seen many providers or this is your first time, I appreciate you considering my companionship. I love introducing new suitors to the indulgences of this industry and do not require references for booking. Feel free to reach out if you have any questions as I am here to make our date as enjoyable as possible!

Do you offer doubles or more with other providers?

At this time, I do not offer doubles or more but will be happy to refer you to other local providers that offer this service.

Do you see female suitors and couples?

I do not see female suitors because I am committed to providing an exceptional experience for every date. As I am heteroromantic, I don't feel like I can provide genuine companionship. If you are interested in a platonic outing, I would be delighted to meet you and invite you to reach out.

Are you associated with law enforcement?

No, I am not associated with law enforcement in any capacity.

How do I know you are real and not a scammer?

Earning your trust is the first step to building a beautiful connection! You can rest assured that I am 100% real based on the verified ads I have on P411, Slixa, Tryst, Private Delights, and Escort Directory. I also invite you to check out more of my content on my Twitter


If you would like to do more research on how to find a reputable and safe provider, I recommend checking out this excellent Reddit post that was created by other providers.

Are your photos really you?

Yes, my photos are all of me and are recent as noted by the dates on the albums in my gallery. I also post self-taken content almost daily on my Twitter.

Why is your face cropped or blurred in all your photos? Can you send me photos with your face so I can see what you look like?

My face is hidden and blurred because I'm a very discreet person and protect my privacy as much as I will protect yours. I won't send you pictures for this very reason. That being said, when you meet me you won't be disappointed!

Why do you not partake in alcohol, smoking, or other substances?

For health reasons, I prefer not to indulge in these substances. I want to keep my body in top shape for you so please be respectful of my decision to refrain.

Are tips or gifts the norm for your suitors?

Tips or gifts are never necessary or expected. I appreciate your thoughtfulness in taking time to visit me. If you do desire to spoil me above and beyond my rate, I'm always grateful and I encourage you to check out my wishlist for some of my favorite items.

How can I contact you?

​Before reaching out, please review my website in its entirety. If your questions are not answered herein, please reach out.