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The "D Word"

Discretion. Few terms get thrown around in our community as much as this one. Everyone wants it, few manage it, and it's sure to spark...

Fall Announcements

Friends, with your support, 2022 has already been a year filled with wonderful connections and amazing dates. Thank you to each of you,...

You Are Enough

If you’ve spent time on social media or visited a home goods store you’re probably familiar with inspirational quotes like this. Although...

Making the Most of Our Time Together

At the end of almost every date, I hear, “That went so fast; I wish we had more time!” Don’t worry, I’m thinking exactly the same thing!...

Birthday Sex

Yeah, I know, it's so cliché but isn't it what we all really want for our birthday? You've showered me with gifts, taken me to a...

Spring Self-Care

Have you noticed all the ads for gyms, supplements, and programs to get that perfect summer body? Yeah, me too. It's that time of year...

A Rainy Rendezvous

April showers bring….well, if you're anything like me, an unyielding desire to curl up under the covers and melt into my lover's arms....

My 5 Favorite Foods to Enjoy in Bed

If you’ve taken even a fleeting glimpse at my Twitter, you know that one of my love languages is food! All jokes aside, I love to eat and...

10 Questions With Sara

My vision for this blog is that these posts will help you learn more about me. What better way to do this than through an adaptation of...

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